Found this on sm’s lj. And i want to share it.

This one’s for the girls who you can take home to mom, but won’t because it’s easier to sleep with a whore than foster a relationship; this is for the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment, or never real to begin with.

This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to discover that he’s just not ready, he’s just not over her, he’s just not looking to be tied down; this is for the girls who believe the excuses because it’s easier to believe that it’s not that they don’t want you, it’s that they don’t want anyone.

This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too cavalier to have cared in the first place; this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech, for the nights when you’ve returned home alone, for the nights when you’ve seen from across the room him leaning a little too close, or standing a little too near, or talking a little too softly for the girl he’s with to be a random hookup.

This is for the girls who have been used and abused, who have endured what he was giving because at least he was giving something; this is for the stupidity of the nights we’ve believed that something was better than nothing, though his something was nothing we’d have ever wanted.

This is for the hugs you’ve received from your female friends, for the nights they’ve reassured you that you are beautiful and intelligent and amazing and loyal and truly worthy of a great guy; this is for the despair you all felt as you sat in the aftermath of your tears, knowing that that night the only companionship you’d have was with a pillow.

i thought the words hit jackpot. it’s just the words i have in mind for ma girls, some whom have hit their lowest pits, and some who have bounced back stronger than before.

imho, best friends should never draw a line between them. whats the use of calling urself a bff/good friend/childhood bff/close friend if u want to have the line visible felt. what’s the meaning of best friends to you? to me, a best friend is someone whom i can share my darkest moments with, goofiest moments with, happiest moments with and blah moments with. im not scared to be scolded by them, to do something and be frowned upon by them, to ask advises(stupidest or lamest whichever) from them, to know they care and to let them know i care. if u cry, we’ll cry together, if u’re happy, we’ll be happy for u too. doesnt mean if im sad, u cant be happy and be around me. im just saying that bffs stick together. no matter what shit each of us r going through, let us know. Care and share? No more meh??

just sayin..

6 thoughts on “Girls..

  1. nobody couldn’t have said it any better. thank you for the eye-opener. hope this wakes each and everyone of us up.

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