not ready to face you yet. not yet.
One of the taboo in a marriage life is to ask, “Who is more important to you? The kid, or me?” It’s one of those questions that can have many different ways of answering, yet all will not end well.
This article discussed just that. I’m not too sure how to make of the article. Do I agree, or not? The author wrote this one, which I’m inclined to agree with him on this,
‘The child seemed to have taken over our lives, and, more painfully for me, taken away the woman I loved. I resented this howling little creature who left my wife exhausted, and me side-lined’
Country music star Keith Urban recently spoke to the Australian Women’s Weekly about the love he has for his wife Nicole Kidman and their kids.
We’re very, very tight as a family unit and the children are our life, but I know the order of my love. It’s my wife and then my daughters. I just think it’s really important for the kids. There are too many parents who start to lose the plot a little and start to give all their love to the kids, and then the partner starts to go without. And then everybody loses. As a kid, all I needed to know was that my parents were solid.
Pure love. But yes, it came with a public outcry after the magazine came out. It was something seldom said. Something that seemed almost taboo. Imagine saying that you love your partner more than you love your child? Even if it’s true. And why do we as a society find that so hard to hear?
Now, question is.. do I love LT more than H?
I know right? Feels like it is coming off from right behind my mind and I had to look for answers to questions like this everytime. Why are things the way they are now? Why not the other way?? So many questions right now.. This, is one of them. Too free I know. Haha.
Dlm asked y havent i been updating my blog.
I’ve been so lazy.. No, Im not pregnant (:( ) just yet. But i feel so tired. It’s been so long that i go out n have fun. I’ve not been out of the house n go enjoy myself. Instead, im all cooped up in the house, or at work, or at mum’s. If i have on off days during the weekends, it’ll be to spend that days with the kiddo, whom i spend so little time with. Married with kids(that include H). That’s what i am.
I’d never know i can learn so much from a person in a day. Sometimes my mind just lagged and when it hits me, i realised i’ve been had for soo long yet i didnt noticed it.
I think i am a simple-minded person. I TRY not to judge people cause i know how it is to be judged as someone by someone else when you’re not that someone at all. The feelings suck. And it will hurt me.
But she has limits. She also knows how to feel hurt. She also knows how it feels to be shamed. She is definitely not stupid.
She has her own problems too you know. sigh.
She can sigh, She can cry, She also can laugh. But yes, She has limits because She is only human.
so She has decided, THAT will end. To protect her own inner feelings. To protect her self-being. To protect her sanity.
She learns when she loves someone, she’ll go all out for that person. But when she doesn’t, well… she wont.
I am so tired cleaning up after your mess.
Im going to start writing things about me, from me. Random stuffs which i think alot of people do not know cause 1)i don’t like to show , 2) nobody asks. 🙂 This will be updated often. As often as i can come up with facts about myself.
I hate green tea. Everything about it; its taste, any brands in any packaging. I ABHORE IT. Like totally.
You might laugh on this but i am a naturally shy girl. If you see me talking so much or gets excited, is probably because i get nervous as much as i get shy. Really.
I hate indecisive attitudes. When im face to face with a dilemma, i realise that its either this or that. I give myself no more than a week to make a decision. If i take more than that, chances are, im not interested to give an answer.